Thursday, July 10, 2008

Aaahh Minnesota...

Not sure why it's taken me so long to blog again. Part of it has to do with the awkwardness of how to blog about my Dad's death. But I'm guessing most of you probably already know that he died, so maybe it's not that awkward after all.

The boys and I left for Minnesota on May 28th. I spent most of my time with Dad, it seemed almost daily his strength decreased. We spent the weekdays in Roseville and weekends in Mora. We had birthday parties and picnics with long time friends. June 14th we went up to Orr, MN for a family vacation along with my brother's wifes family, a trip Dad had been looking forward to for nearly a year. Dad really wasn't strong enough to go, but we didn't dare suggest that we not go. The first morning we were there we had to call the ambulance because Dad was in such pain and we couldn't seem to help. Later that day we found out he had a raging infection and the Dr. said he thought it would only be a few days. He died in the hospital on June 16th at about 8pm. I am so thankful for God allowing me to spend three weeks with my Dad before he died, and that I could be with Mom and the family for a week and a half after his death. I miss my daily talks with Dad on the phone (sometimes several times a day) and each time I see an airplane fly by, I think of him. But what peace and joy it brings to think that my Daddy is strong again and dancing with Jesus.

The boys had a lot of fun playing with their cousins. The Ostrom cousins... Julia, Karina and Joy (left to right - Sophia is too young to be playing out in the dirt.)


...and the Lefto cousins were all together since Jody, Amelia and Gaeron were here from Pennsylvania. L to R, starting in the back... Olivia, Audrey, Kelsey, Gaeron, Steven; E, Amelia, Whitney, Abbey, Ryan; A, J, Ryley and Peri. (Note how the boys kind of bookended the girls. I thought it was cute.)

The Science Mueseum of Minnesota was hosting a Star Wars... uummmm... thing. And Justin and the boys went with Grandpa Gord and Uncle Jeff and his boys. The boys absolutely loved it, Justin thought it was the lamest thing ever.



And the boys FINALLY got their hair cut. Lindsay from Justin's work used to do hair and I found out about it. It's fun to actually be able to see Asher and Jakin's eyes when I talk to them!! Eli doesn't look too happy here, but he was more excited for Miss Lindsay to cut his hair than he ever is when I do it. Be looking for pictures of their new "do's" in upcoming posts.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow, Kara! Its great to finally read a new blog! lol even if it did make me cry! We can't wait to see the boys new hair cuts! Did you get one too?

Love,
Nicole and Joe

Anonymous said...

Kara Lynnie, I've also been waiting for a new blog. I was soooooooo very thankful that you were in Minnesota for the whole month too. Don't know what I would have done without you. They were very difficult days, but God gives strength for each one. He is so faithful.
Now I don't know what 'normal' is anymore, but maybe down the road I'll discover what it is.
Thanks for being here, and for all your help which is continuing.
I love you all and miss you so much. I'll wait to see what the new haircuts look like!
Love,
Mom

Nathan & Maggie said...

Thanks for the new blog Kara ! Love you and miss you all.

jenni said...

Great to read your post! I'm glad I was able to see you guys briefly. I miss you all and think about you all the time. Next time your here maybe I'll get to see you on a day I don't have school :)

Kristin said...

Glad to see you're "back"... but, I do wish you were still here in MN so we could spend a little more time together.

Just this last week I was thinking how great it was that you were here to spend your dad's last days with him. And isn't the thought of him in Heaven with his Father just... well, it's beyond words.

Love you!
~kjl

JoAnn Venhuizen said...

kara. so sorry we didnt get to connect those last couple days you were in the cities...but i was sort of in and out of town- long story. like most people ,i am sure- i am so thankful that your dad was a man of faith and extened his beliefs to you...love that about your dad, and your family. the picture of him dancing with jesus makes me smile...and cry at the same time.
totally wish i would have gotten to hug you- not sure what my july and early august holds....but maybe just maybe a trip to Kansas could happen. sweet huh! ok, there a millions of tornado's in the good state of MN right now- so i best get up off the couch and go check out the sky. love you kara lynn. out- joannie

Lisa said...

Kara,

Blaine, the kids, and I send our condolences to you and yours, but we also praise Jesus that you will one day be reunited with your Daddy, and that he is whole and restored.

We miss you and visit your blog from time to time so that we don't seem so far apart.

Love and prayers,
Lisa, Blaine, Emma, and Evan Perdue